Carrie, reading this made me fill up because you made me realise that where I am with my wife is not unusual.

“How’s my sex object?”
My phrase is “Hiya sexy” which makes her look and smile and feel sexy & wanted, just as you described.

Even down to the viagra and how it works for him but not for you.

I’m not sure if the issue with my wife is fibromyalgia, I don’t think so but peri menopause/ menopause is a killer for the libido.

I love how you expressed your love for each other. We feel and express in similar ways.

I hope and pray that you can find a way to overcome fibromyalgia and rekindle intimacy with each other again.

Thank you so much for your openness and vulnerability 🥹