I agree, this is one side of it. The other side is that to refuse a sexual advance is an affront to one’s manhood.

I was once effectively requested to prostitute myself. I was a salesman and was close to closing a substantial deal. I was told by the buyer that if I was willing to sleep with an influential female stakeholder I would secure the deal.

As a happily married man with two young children and the need to secure the deal for my income, I was faced with a dilemma. Do I secure the deal and fulfil my manhood with this not unattractive older white woman, or do I pass up the deal, with my wife and children having beans on toast for dinner?

You will be pleased to know I made the right decision. Beans on toast is quite tasty!